Archive for February, 2009

Cheaper Than Therapy

February 21, 2009

1.  I took the 25 things list entirely too seriously.  Consider it therapy.  I apologize to my friends who despise this – I’m weak, I tell you!

2.  When my husband moved in he arrogantly announced he was the Perfect Roommate.  When I bought him a shirt designating him as such he wouldn’t wear it.  Perhaps it was my matching shirt designating me The Perfect Roommate’s Roommate.  At my bachelorette party, a small band of ladies joined me for dinner at an excellent restaurant that treated us *very* well (we knew the manager *wink*) and my best friend bought me a shirt designating me The Perfect Groom’s Bride.  I still wear that shirt even though my husband won’t wear his Perfect Groom shirt.  Ever.  I’m glad she got that for me because I’m not sure I’d have the balls to drink beer from a penis.  Pun intended.

3.  When I married my husband I thought I was marrying a good man.  When I became hospitalized during my pregnancy and he didn’t leave my side – I became sure of it.

4.  I love to cook.  And eat.  Everything.  5 years ago no one would have believed that statement.  Everything I cooked came out funny shaped and weird tasting.  I get a tremendous amount of satisfaction out of trying new things and having them come out well.  I’m working on my reaction when they don’t. 😉

5.  I am hopelessly addicted to handheld video games and rescuing Princess Zelda from whatever silly mess she’s gotten herself into recently.

6.  I ride.  Not much but I ride.  I don’t ride because I met a man who rides.  Quite the opposite, in fact.  I think its equal parts maddening and amusing that most people will ask “what does your husband ride?” first.

7.  I blog.  Not much but I blog.  I’m not even sure what I post could be considered ‘blogging’.

8.  It drives me nuts when people can’t spell.  And what’s with using the wrong spelling for a word?  And what’s with the lack of grammar, lately?  Although I can’t (directly) blame the decline of Western Civilization on this it kinda *does* explain why my first graders say “SURE IT DOES” when I ask them if something sounds right to them.

9.  I feel like I missed out (and still do) on a lot of things by moving away from everyone I know at such a key time in my life (wedding, first house, baby).

10.  Those feelings are replaced by the warm reception I got from the new people I met here.  How quickly they welcomed me and how very much they managed to help me and George out when we were in a pickle.  I hope I’m able to convey how much we appreciate it, still, and I hope I can repay them somehow.

11.  I no longer get along with my mother and sometimes I think the only reason I still endure her company is out of a strange sense of responsibility to my son.  If she keeps calling him a ‘little shit’, though (even joking), I might change my opinion of that.

12.  Even though I know it’s disgusting and I hate the way it makes me feel (and the dying someday part kinda sucks, too) – I enjoyed smoking and miss it terribly.  In fact, I have a lot of shoulda/coulda/wouldas but I don’t have a lot of regrets.  Starting smoking is one of them.

13.  Thanks to my Hospital Vacation and my son’s – I think I now have an obsessive compulsion to use hand cream whenever my hands get wet.  I carry a tiny tin of aquaphor and use it quite often.

14.  I not-so-secretly think my son is a genius and I marvel at women who have children and don’t talk about them incessantly.  I’m not sure if I care to know the secrets to your powers of restraint but I bet my friends and co-workers wish I did!

15.  My favorite TV shows right now are CSI, NipTuck and Life on Mars.  I think two of those are jumping the shark as we speak.  Of course, I know the kinda shows I watch and I know it’s funny that I worry they are tanking…

16.  I LOVE reading.  Love it.  I would love to go on and on about the kind of books I like to read and what I thought of the last one and what books I want to read in the future.  It makes me very sad that I don’t have the time I’d like to read and/or the time or opportunity to discuss them. I won’t join a book club because I don’t tend to read the books that “they” read (unless there’s a book club for zombie novels, Armageddon themed short stories or science fiction) and I fear most of the book and book talk would go over my head anyway.

16 and a half.  I’m thrilled to death that G4 brings me books and chooses to sit still to have them read to him.

17.  I’m very sensitive.  I take things too personally and my feelings get hurt easily.   Of course, I sometimes think that I try too hard to compensate and wind up treating people harshly.  Then I overcompensate again and end up feeling like a doormat…or am I just being sensitive?  You see my dilemma.

18.  I am the person they make commercials for.  They are mini comedy shows – are they not?  And how can I possibly live without that gadget??  Mostly, though, I laugh out loud at them and repeat them to my husband often.  Who can keep a straight face at the talking stain commercial?

19.  I love my son.  And my husband.  And it irritates me when my husband says things like “I’ll deal with the baby so you don’t have to” (Funny I don’t hear it that often).  I want him to understand that my baby is not a chore and that I enjoy spending time with him.  But let’s face it – he’s no Gameboy.

20.  I despise when people don’t bring their shopping carts to the corral.  The few times that I could not help doing it myself I’ve felt incredibly guilty.

21.  My grandmother was my best bud.  I miss her terribly and I wish everyone could have met her.  She died right before I got married.  I’m glad that she met George (and liked him).  I wish she could have met G4.  She would have really gotten a kick out of him.

22.  When I was young I was offered the opportunity to learn the piano.  I passed it up and I’ve been kicking myself ever since.

23.  When I was young my grandmother offered to teach me Polish.  I passed it up and I’ve been kicking myself ever since.  Later, MUCH later, I tried to undo that and would harass my Mee Mom until she upped with a Polish word or phrase.  But it was too late.  Years of disuse and a rotten sense of humor led her to only remember the peculiar phrase.  Now I can proudly demand that someone kiss my ass or announce ‘I farted’ in Polish.  Oddly enough – these get used often in my house.

24.  I often pictured myself as the person that would grow up and old having friends pop in and out…having people over for dinner….getting together with friends and having the kids play together (not the connotation that play dates have – that the children are the only ones getting something out of it!)…and I’m very, very disappointed that my life didn’t work out that way.  I often attribute it to moving but how much of it is antisocial?

25.  I’m thoroughly convinced that clinical depression runs in our family….or maybe I just need to exercise.